How to I come more comfortable with myself?
Victor M asked:
So I’m pretty sure that I’m gay, I’m thirteen years old.
I know people might say that that is a little young to know
your sexuality, but I want to know how I can become more
comfortable with myself and later come out. I don’t know if I should try and date girls first to see who I’m more comfortable around though.
So I’m pretty sure that I’m gay, I’m thirteen years old.
I know people might say that that is a little young to know
your sexuality, but I want to know how I can become more
comfortable with myself and later come out. I don’t know if I should try and date girls first to see who I’m more comfortable around though.
just have confidence with yourself
You are not gay. Just realize there is something wrong in your life and find it so you can fix it. Being gay is just a way to not deal with your problems.
How about try dating girls first and see who you’re more comfortable being around with..
i think try dating a guy and then a girl see witch one you feel better around. 13 isnt too young to tell i think anyway one of my freinds come out last yr that he was gay and he was 13 then.
if your uncomfortable being gay then maybe you aren’t…
Your sexuality is determined by your hormones, and if you haven’t started puberty yet then you can’t really know. But I suggest just remember that there is no difference between homosexuals and heterosexuals apart from what sexual preference they desire, we are all human. You should remember to be yourself, and don’t listen to the Christians! Generally coming out at a young age isn’t good though, you will often get tormented.
Be yourself- don’t date a girl unless you really like her, because if you don’t her heart will be crushed anyway.
Sorry I can’t give you better advice, but good luck and I’m always here to talk to if you need it.
**EDIT**
Just because he’s uncomfortable, doesn’t mean he’s not gay.
Maybe he grew up in a really anti-gay enviroment?
I know I did.
And can the gay-haters please just leave.
You’re only jealous ’cause you can’t join in.
Hi Victor. GAY IS OK. Do what feels right. Don’t try to please anyone but yourself, and your partner. Think CLAY AIKEN! yum. Gays are accepted in these modern times. You ARE beautiful, no matter what they say. Famous Christina Agulaira. LUVV HERR. But anyways, be gay. Explore. Have fun. Ciao.
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Just do what you have to do… but hold on if you already know you are gay why are you gonna try and date girls? Just accept yourself.
Just don’t think of yourself as gay. Just think of yourself as you for who are and what you belive in and all that good stuff. You don’t have to just be gay. Being gay isn’t who you are it is what you find sexually attractive. Don’t worry about it you’ll be fine
I’m bisexual, but at a time I did think I was a lesbian. After a little bit of hanging out with the opposite sex and the same sex, I learned of my sexuality. So if you need some reassurance then I say you should at least try to be with a girl.
Not necessarily date her, because that would be using her. Just try and get to know some girls, and some guys to find out. No harm done in just trying to befriend them. It would be a lot easier to find out now at the age of 13 than to be dating either the same or opposite sex and then one day change your mind on your lover.
So in my opinion, at least attempt it. And Youre never to young to find out your sexuality, it just takes some time to adjust to your hormones.
Just knowing that it’s ok to be whoever you are will help you become more comfortable with yourself. Don’t worry about trying to please other people by doing things that don’t feel comfortable to you. Experience what the world has to offer and you will know what’s right for you.
Good luck!
At 13 years old is little young to know, Teen are confused, try to go out with girls, there is nothing wrong. I think you are shy and we all are to certain point, but it’s too early to know. Just be yourself and have fun. God bless you dear.
I tried dating girls first too and then after I turned 24 I was like “Ya know what I would rather risk losing those closest to me than continue leading a deceptive and unfulfilling miserable life” I have been out for over a year now and everyone that I love still loves me and I know I am one of the fortunate ones, but either way it could have went I do not regret my decision to be myself.
P.S. You and only you can know, age is irrelevant.
dude, if ur gay then stay in the closet I don’t want to see u.
jk
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Don’t worry your still young and America is slowing falling to the point where everyone will be forced to accept Homosexuality as a daily life kinda thing. for now you can always look up to your favorite gay celebrities or talented Homosexuals for confidence, but porn stars don’t count cuz ur still too young.
I’m old….. but 13 is too young to decide on your preference.
You just may want to be around the guys and have no interest (yet) in the opposite sex. Calm down and stop thinking about it!
Your looks have nothing to do with your sexual preference!
It can take years . You are being raised to be a robot who will work for low pay . Think for yourself and follow your heart -
Just have self-esteem and self-confident. Try to date a girl then feel if you like being with her. If you don’t then try to ask guy for a date. Well, it depends with the person who you are being with.